An itch I can't scratch

          Have you ever had one of those itches that you just can't seem to scratch? Ever have something get so bad it becomes the twitch in your eye? Well mine is the misinformed, ill advised, topped off with a dose of sanctimonious. I recently published an article concerening what D/s BDSM means to not only me but my submissive as well. And one of the two comments left critisized me and made some pretty misinformed assumptions. It is almost as if they had not read the whole piece from beginning to end. This individual known only as “t3h fake “ asked a very good question and one I'll be happy to answer. “If society\’s expectations are bad, why are your expectations good? Why is it liberating for her to start desiring to correct the flaws you find in her instead of desiring to conform to social norms?”Here is the article that inspired that question, now I have read and reread the article and I must admit I am at a loss as to what he is actually asking. Check it out for yourselves. http://socyberty.com/subcultures/what-being-a-master-means-to-me/

          Before I answer their question I would like to point out somethings that may or may not be known by the general public. The D/s BDSM lifestyle isn't for everyone, but for those looking for more than the missionary position it's a way of life. No one enters a scene, negotiation, or even a life long relationship without knowing what it means. We are not the shady characters on the street corner, we come from all walks of life. We are doctors, lawyers, carpenters, executives, the school teacher, we are everywhere. As for the question, I think I'm gonna let answering it go. At least till they read this http://socyberty.com/psychology/the-freedom-of-consensual-slavery/ after that they may wish to withdraw the question. You see, I never set out to point out flaws I see instead I listen and work to get rid of the flaws that she sees. And I think that's where the confusion comes into play.

          

          They were only viewing it from what I a Dom/master had to say, but neglected to let my slaves voice to be heard. She (apparently to the disbelief of some) can speak for herself in this matter. So there you have it, my itch I cannot scratch. Was it an innocent question or meant to imply. So to th3fake I hope you read this. But I'm not holding my breath till you do. Hopefully my slaves words will give those who implicate what isn't there a different look into our lifestyle. One that hopefully sheds a little more light on an often misunderstood facet of society.