Master and slave: Joyous times

          In a previous post I made reference to being committed to my slave through the good and bad. It is in great pride in my efforts and in her abilities to present and example of the joyous times. These shared experiences are a part of the D/s BDSM community, yet they are often ignored or brushed aside for the benefit of a good story in the news. My slave learned to believe in herself! I mean I’m sure she thought she had faith before, but having faith and having belief are two separate things.

          With faith you have confidence that something good will happen. When you have belief, you’re expressing that you know for a fact that something will happen. It was this mentality that she had to except. You see she is a very talented writer and you can see for yourself here at This Tainted Soul of Mine. It is through this natural born gift that her belief in that she will succeed is created. Once she accepted this into her heart, she was rewarded with one of her articles being published in an online e-zine you can find that one here SOCYBERTY.

          With this, she has a stepping stone in order to achieve far greater things with her writings. All she had to do is switch from faith to belief in her abilities and how far she can go with them. I achieved this not through punishment as some might expect. I did it by forbidding her to quit. By pointing out that by her focusing on being a perfect slave, that she can then apply that same focus to all aspects of her being. This did not happen overnight. I knew from the word go that it would take time do to the fact that it is not physical behavior I would be changing but a persons psyche or their view of themselves. An undertaking such as this is not one to be taken lightly.

          By forcing her through critism when needed and a good girl when warranted she became aware of the belief that I as her master had in her. It was through this that she felt the very natural desire to please me and in order to achieve that she had to come to the understanding that to do nothing was not acceptable in her masters eyes. It was through this that she followed her natural desires and bowed to my will as her master to guide her in what I expected of her. What expected of her was effort. What I expected of her was determination. That what I wanted for her the most was success! I commanded these things of her and as the wonderful and attentive slave did her best at following those commands. By doing this she gained strength through my convictions in her gift. Through that strength she discovered a deep seeded belief that she was good enough. It was through that strength that she closed off the fear of rejection, of disappointment. That through effort comes reward. And it is because of that strength that she is who she is today a talented and gifted writer. So as I said She has made me proud to be her master and it is that very pride that I can say with all the love I have, “Good Girl”!