Being a new Master

         As one who is a new Master in a BD of the BDSM lifestyle. I will admit that I'm learning on the fly. I however do not allow this to be an excuse for bad behavior on my part. Now by “bad behavior on my part” I am actually saying following through on the role of a true master or of what a true master should be. When forming a Dominant and Submissive relationship it is important to understand that both sides have certain expectations and responsibilities. As a master my view and expectations of the one who wears my collar, my submissive, my slave. Are basic yet important foundations of the relationship. For me I demand loyalty, respect, obedience, trust, manners, and total devotion and servitude. In my Eyes her responsibilities are to do my bidding and give into my will, and by doing so relinquishes herself to me.         
        As for me the master I can only speak for what my sub has asked of me. It is my responsibility to protect what is mine to own. I start by claiming her by proclaiming that I own her and that she is mine. I also take on the responsibility to teach either through reward or punishment the proper behavior I expect of my slave. I take on the responsibility of providing comfort and solace in the thought that by servitude their purpose is defined.
         
       A good master is one who is strong, firm, yet fair. I demand respect servitude and a mentality of instead of “I can't do that” but one of “How can I do that in order to please my master". I am a proud and lucky master though, for my slave has such a mentality and is strong in her convictions and determination to please. So anyway thats a glimpse and I warn only a glimpse of the world in which I dwell. In the future I'll focus on the all the parts that make up my vampiric soul and this piece will fit into most of it.